multiples are good
the concept of dating multiple people at once is so tricky. i’d like to think i didn’t do that because it would’ve been so much to keep up with! and in today’s age of social networking, it would be so easy to check a person’s facebook, twitter, or even google to figure out who else that person is talking to. but i’ll venture to say, the concept of dating multiple people in the very early stages of dating should be embraced. i mean, it’s so hard to find that one person you’re meant to spend the rest of your life with that dating one at a time (plus the time in between) would take so long and there’s only so many prime years in our life!
when i come up with storylines, the struggle i have is finding an interesting setting to tell it in, that adds character, and would be fun to draw. so, i figure guys sometimes go out and play sports, and they usually end up catching up on news and such. so, maybe in the future we’ll see more sport scenes on top of the coffee shop talks.
I think Ace would tell the ladies about the other ones. His playa skills are so tight that the women will take the other woman as competition, then they will fight even harder to prove that they are worthy of his Aciness. Also, he should play sports with his headphones on still.
I agree AkaDimiX
Relationships are less tricky when you’re just “hanging out” versus “dating.” In hanging out, you can enjoy someone’s company and determine if that person is potential for dating without the closeness, or vulnerability of dating. There’s no right for either side to be jealous. Now that Ace is dating though, he should be up front about his intentions. It’ll give him freedom from commitment, and if that’s what the lady also wants, hey, both will be happy! Some ladies may avoid emotional and physical intimacy with him and keep it casual, too. Worst case, they’d end up just “hanging out” as friends again. It’s a risk he has to take, but it’s better than allowing someone to think the relationship is exclusive and get too attached. When the secret is revealed at just the wrong time and moment, he could loose even the chance of still being friends.
very wise words tt – it’s a matter of how much you want to gamble and how much it means to you. play too loose and you could lose everything!
to be honest, that’s why i like Ace. he’s an aspect of my personality that i could never be. i’m way to risk-adverse and not extroverted enough to take the risks that Ace takes. to a degree, i’d say there’s a little bit of Ace in each of us… and you know what, i think that’s why Ace works so well as a character.