so finn is finally out and ’bout, back on the dating scene!  and this we examine some first date traps.  now, on a first date, it’s standard to ask lots of questions as part of just getting to know each other.  maybe during the course of the conversation, you realize you have a lot in common and your fondness gets even deeper.  or maybe you realize you wished anyone of your friends would call so you could claim it as an emergency and leave!  and there’s always that balance of being open with the person without airing out all your dirt.