i read this article a long time ago and the topic was basically how it’s NOT best for the relationship to tell each other everything.  it resonated with me because i feel like society tells us that we should tell our partners everything there is about us.  don’t get me wrong here, i should feel comfortable enough to tell her anything – but it doesn’t mean i should tell her everything.  obviously there are important facts about oneself we should disclose because they define us.  but i don’t feel like every thought, every dream, every doubt should be aired for a conversation.  sometimes keeping it to yourself is better for the relationship.  plus you get a mysterious factor cred!

ok, i’m coming across a problem with my art that i haven’t bothered to rectify for years now.  when i’m in photoshop and i use a paint bucket fill to color in, say elle’s hair, i get this very faint white around the edges.  it’s as if the paint bucket didn’t reach the edge.  so i do two things to help mitigate, (1) expand the magic wand selection to encompass the line ink, and (2) turn the line ink layer into multiple blend.  still, no good.  so, if you have the answer, help please!