do you call it a compromise or defeat when you don’t get your way? i mean, we all know in an adult relationship, we’re not going to get everything we want. but how much effort and principle should you put[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
i’d like to continue from last week’s message and talk about how we’re just not entitled to anything. the notion that because we’re now friends, you should be invited all events i have is absurd. first of all, sometimes you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
remember MySpace? remember how you could rank your friends? it was such a big deal back in the day where you were on someone’s list, and their life for that matter. i’m actually thankful Facebook got rid of that practice. […]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
it’s so, so easy to fall into an equalist mode. if you do it for me, THEN i’ll do it for you. it’s only fair right? hey, i totally agree! but, for the sake of society and further it, i[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
for this week’s commentary, i’d like to take us a step even further back, to get a better picture of the bigger picture. all our lives we’re running towards something. whether it’s running to find love, running after that promotion[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
i don’t know about you, but it’s a constant struggle with me – do i go out and paint the town, or stay in the comfort of my home? usually, in either case, i don’t regret it. on one hand,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
do you ever feel like a critic but when the situation is happening to you, it’s ok? i wonder why that is. the human mind has such a capacity to generate excuses and justify circumstances, in order to keep the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
instant gratification. and that’s still not enough – we want it to be a freaking awesome kind of gratification! i liken it to gambling, where the notion of walking up to a table or slot machine, spending $1 and somehow[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
i really enjoy people watching. every so often, when i’m in a restaurant or a dance club, i just like to look around and make up stories for people. are they on a date? why haven’t they said a word[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
let’s all agree on one thing – we don’t like to play games in relationships. but… what’s considered a game? how about manipulation? how about influencing or persuading? where do you draw the line? does it depend if the motive[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
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